Friendship

I came across this quote on Tumblr and I felt like I really wanted to write a post about it. 

"Sometimes you miss the memories. Not the person." 

This is exactly right, in my opinion. Sometimes you can have an amazing time with a person, but for some reason or other, they change. People change, people grow up, etc. etc... it's just what happens. Sometimes people do change for the worse though and that's what you have to be careful of. Only surround yourself with positive people, who bring good into your life and understand you, care for you and only want what's best for you. Never change yourself and who you are to suit another person, don't alter yourself because somebody else things you need to change certain things about yourself. If someone can't accept you for who you are and keeps bringing you down about anything... that person doesn't deserve to be in your life and you can make the decision to move on and leave that person behind. But that brings you on to this quote. If theres been a time in your life where you think you've had an amazing relationship or friendship with someone and you remember so many good times with them, but for some reason or other, you don't associate with that person any more, don't dwell on it. It's likely that it's not the person themselves that you miss, it's the memories of how much fun you had and how happy you were yourself around the time that you were with them. Don't ever feel guilty for removing someone from your life if it is for the greater good. Be yourself and be as positive as you can be.